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It’s a well known fact that women are always worried about something, be it their career, their children, or their bed and sex life. What about men? Are they really ‘cold-blooded’ creatures or is it just an image, cherishing their manhood.



You would be surprised to find out that men do have fears and their sexual worries take the leadership here. But we are not going to take advantage of them, using their fears to rule them. At least, the majority of us won’t do that. Because, if you really do care about your man you’ll try to help him solve his sexual fears. Besides, you’ll be the one who benefits from that.

The majority of men are concerned that they are worse lovers than your ex. Therefore, try not to mention how great was your ex in bed.

Some women like having such ‘hearty conversations’ about their adventurous sexual life, their bedroom experiments with their exs, telling how exciting it all was, giving details of all the skills and techniques of her former lover. This openness will make your man jealous and insecure. You want to have a jealous and insecure lover? Then do it, tell your lover how much you enjoyed making love with another man.

Yet I doubt you’d want that. What you can do is to tell your partner how much you enjoy him doing all these things to you. Don’t be embarrassed name every little thing you enjoy him doing to you. This is where you can apply your openness.

Make your own experiments, try something neither of you tried before. You can introduce anal play into your sex life (if you haven’t already introduced), or start watching sexual movies, or pick up sex toys together online, discuss how you are going to use sex toys you’ve chosen on each other. All these activities can strengthen your relationship.Let him feel his uniqueness.

Not only women are permanently worried about their body shape. This is quite a pressing question for many men as well. A man can be bothered that his body is not sexy enough for you. No matter what he thinks, is he too fat, too skinny, too short, too hairy, give him the confidence by saying that you enjoy every inch of his body. Kiss and touch his body on every occasion, showing how much you like his skin, his butt, show him how aroused you get when touching his body. Body imperfections can’t spoil great intercourse, while worries about them can completely ruin it.

Many men are worried that they don’t satisfy you. Sometimes men can get tired to keep up to your expectations. Yes, it’s true: men can lose their libidos too. This is natural for both men and women. Don’t put pressure on him, just give him a break. Usually it’s a temporary state. Offer him a relaxing massage, but at first warn him that it’s for relaxation only. Take his pressure off. If this state lasts for quite a long time, take a couple of days off and spend them in bed with your partner.

Men are often not very confident about the way they caress you and stimulate your hot spots. If you have no complaints about it, assure your man your enjoying his touches to bits. Make a show out of it. When he starts caressing you, let your body show him the way you feel. Don’t restrain yourself, gyrate in from of your man, give pleasure screams, ask for more. Or you can set another performance, in case if there is a gap in his techniques knowledge. Perform in front of him; show him how you touch yourself, and then ask him to repeat.

This is not only helpful for him but also very arousing. Just don’t give it like a lesson to him, but like a foreplay. Let him study without knowing he is being taught. Keep your man self confident and happy. Eventually, you will be the one reaping all the sweet rewards.



By: Lena Laursen

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Men’s sex toys are an essential. There are many types of sex toys for men and while these toys are an ideal nightstand choice for the single man, there’s no reason why couples shouldn’t use them, as well. It’s always fun and exciting for couples to have a pleasure chest stocked full of goodies for both partners, either to use alone, or with each other and it’s a great way to spice up a relationship, or to keep one fresh and exciting.

For a single man, or one who’s married and wants more practice, using a masturbator is a great way to increase your stamina, as they very realistic feeling, and they offer a degree of control over your orgasm that many men find exciting and satisfying. Here is a look at a few types of sex toys for men.

Cock Rings

Cock rings restrict the flow of blood away from an erect penis, creating a pleasurable feeling of tightness and pressure, prolonging erection, and sometimes delaying ejaculation. Cock rings also put pressure on the contracting muscle during climax, giving some men extremely intense orgasms.

Cock rings are Usually worn at the base of the penis and behind the scrotum, although some men prefer to wear cock rings around the base of their penis only. Some cock rings are actually designed to fit around the penis as well as the testicles, which in it’s self can be pleasurable, but can also delay ejaculation by putting pressure on the vas deferens, the tube that carries sperm to the penis. Some cock rings are stiff and solid, usually made from metal or firm rubber. These are designed to be put on when the penis is soft. Others are made from ultra stretchy silicone material, which can stretch over an erect penis. Either way you go, they’re going to do you good. It’s all about personal preference in the end, so try a few different kinds and see what you like.

Some care should be taken when experimenting with cock rings. They do need to be tight to work well, but they should not cause you any pain or discoloration. You should always remove the ring if it becomes uncomfortable. In order to avoid any unpleasant snags or yanking of your pubic hair, you may want to trim or shave the area where you’ll be wearing the ring, or you can always just use a little lubrication. Just use a little common sense while playing with cock rings and you’ll have an enjoyable experience.

Vibrating Cock Rings

As vibrations are used to intensely enhance masturbation or intercourse, the combination of a cock ring and a vibrator are an extremely pleasurable treat for both a man and woman. This type of cock ring is designed to stimulate both partners with vibration during intercourse. The vibrations from a cock ring at the base of a man’s penis will send waves of vibrating ecstasy along the shaft of the man tool, turning a real-life penis into a real-live vibrator, leaving everybody extremely satisfied. Most cock rings are constructed with a bullet vibe attached at one or both sides of the cock ring. This allows for pleasurable stimulation of the testicles, the clitoris, or both, when having intercourse. The majority of vibrating cock rings is constructed using plastic, jelly rubber, or latex.

Penis Pumps

Everyone should know about the penis pump. I mean, how could we forget the classic scene in the film Austin Powers. He was a swinger baby. And the pump was his! And he loved it! Penis pumps are a vacuum or suction device used to draw blood into the penis. This causes the tissue in the penis to stretch, enlarging your erection and helping you achieve a more powerful one. The increased size and hardness of your pumped up penis, can be quite exciting, both to the eye and to the touch. It has actually been reported that with repeated use, a penis pump can produce a permanent increase in penis size. Blood rushing to the penis is always a good thing, and the stimulation produced by penis pumps can be very satisfying. Most men find the suction these toys produce intensely enjoyable.

There are many different models and varieties of penis pumps, but they all work the same way. They are usually made of a plastic or Perspex cylinder, with a sealing rubber at one end to create a seal around the penis, and a tube coming from the other end leading to a bulb or hand pump, which is used to pump the air out of the cylinder. Some have vibrating stimulators built into them for added pleasure, and others have an electric pump, so you don’t have to pump by hand.

Some men like to use penis pumps to ready themselves for partner intercourse. Men with erectile problems have used these toys to help gain strong erections for years. Penis pumps can also be used in conjunction with a cock ring, to achieve an erection, and then maintain the erection, with the cock ring. Others men love penis pumps to help them to achieve a strong orgasm.

It is recommended to use a good water based lubricant around the base of your penis while using a penis pump, as it helps to achieve a more effective vacuum. Some users also find that using a penis pump while in the shower or bath is very pleasurable and more effective, as the warmth can help the penis expand. Of course, if your penis pump is electric, keep it away from water.

Penis Extensions

Penis extensions are the safest and easiest way to achieve extra length and girth to your penis. Penis extensions can also help sustain or simulate an erection. Men with erectile dysfunction absolutely love penis extensions, because they help simulate the thrusting that accompanies traditional intercourse. Don’t think that other men can’t use them too. Using sex toys is all about trying new things and having fun!

Penis extensions come in many different shapes, sizes and textures; however, there are two main styles. The first is like a hollow dildo, which is secured with straps. These make a great aid for men having problems achieving or maintaining an erection, and are also great to prolong intercourse. The second style is softer, and worn more like a condom. They require an erection in order to stay on, and generally provide more stimulation for the wearer than the strap-on kind. Obviously wearing a penis extension will reduce some stimulation for the man wearing it, but they greatly increase inches and staying power. Just wait until you see the reaction of your partner when you are able to reach new places and give her that great orgasm.

Penis extensions are also available with various textures and ticklers on the surface, which can provide new and exciting sensations.

Penis sleeves should be cleaned like any other sex toy, and should be used with water based lubes, as oil based lubes can cause latex material to break down.

Masturbators / Sleeves

The ultimate male pleasure toy and some of the best sex toys for single guys. Masturbation sleeves are simple and safe to use: you lube up, insert your penis into the soft, warm masturbator and jerk away. Made from a variety of substances, masturbators can be shaped like flashlights, beer cans, extra-large penises or realistic vaginas, and are usually internally coated with silicone or cyberskin like materials, which give you a very realistic feeling. A sex toy masturbator is the closest thing a man can get to real sex without a woman. These toys are getting more and more life-like, as new materials like UR3 and Cyberskin have entered the market and a lot of masturbators are modeled, and cloned exactly from porn stars for the ultimate in realism.

While these sex toys are an ideal nightstand choice for the single man, there’s no reason why couples can’t use them, as well. It’s always fun for couples to have a pleasure chest stocked full of goodies for both partners, either to use alone, or with each other. Using a masturbator is also a great way to increase your stamina, as they very realistic feeling, and they offer a degree of control over your orgasm that many men find exciting and satisfying. If you’ve never tried a masturbator, you should definitely give it a shot. You’ve only got a great orgasm and greater control to gain.

Realistic Dolls

Toy vaginas, also known as fake pussies, or artificial vaginas are sex toys designed to recreate a real vagina for the purpose of stimulating the penis. They are tight , safe, and satisfying. Usually made from silicone or, lifelike, and very realistic materials such as UR3 and cyberskin. Some toy vaginas have vaginal and anal openings; some also have vibrating and moving parts inside for extra stimulation of the penis. Most toy vaginas are even modeled right from a porn stars vagina and anus, for the ultimate in realism and fantasy. In addition, a vibrating bullet is located in the center of the vagina or anus to bring some life and suction to the sex toy.



By: Leila Gabrielle

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