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How Do I Approach Sex Toy Use For the First Time or If I am Inexperienced

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010


Dildos are a little daunting when you first get them out of their packaging. Most companies don’t give you a manual on how to use the sex toy you have just bought. They just presume that you knwo where to “stick it”. This is unfortunate because unless you know what you are doing you cannot feel the true benefit of owning a sex toy. As a result I have decided to put together a guide here to help those who are approaching dildo use without much experience. It is not a step by step guide but will point you in the right direction.

1. Lubrication

Unlike a penis a dildo doesn’t produce it’s on lubricant so girls it very important to lubricate up. It is a common fallacy that a woman own natural lubricant will suffice, in fact quite often many materials of penetrative toys actually can absorb the women lubricant. Whenever a woman is using a penetrative toy it is vital that she uses a lot of lubricant. Remember most materials don’t slide easily and if not properly lubricated can lead to unpleasant friction that may need to nasty soreness that can last for several days.

2. In the Mood For Love

You will feel discomfort if you try to use a sex toy before being suitably aroused. Take your time with the toy and work your way to arousal through stimulation of other erogenous zones. If you have a vibrating dildo for example; gently caress you clitoris using a gentle buzz setting to get yourself excited if not use your hands. You would’t want a lover to jump right in and the same approach has to be applied to dildo use.

3. Take it easy

The first penetration should be taken very slowly and with deep breaths. Taking these long breaths allows blood to rush to the genitals that help them to engorge and relax. If you take short breaths or hold your breath it stops all of this taking place resulting tightness and tenderness. Once the dildo is inserted I would suggest leaving it in there for a moment to allow the body to get used to the feel of it and give the time for the body to relax properly. Remember you don’t have to insert the entire dildo in (do what feels nice and comfortable). Some women like deep penetration and others more shallow insertion. Remember that it is your toy girls you are in control and play around with your dildo. Work out what feels nice. Lube yourself up around the genitals and your dildo then rub it against your lips and clitoris teasing yourself and then penetrate it really is a lot of fun.

4. Are We Having Fun Yet?

Do anything you want ladies. Insert the entire dildo or only half of it, put it deeper or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions (tease yourself when you feel that you are close to climax, stop then count to thirty and begin pleasuring yourself again, let the anticipation build again, stop and repeat this a few times the resulting orgasm will be electric). Enjoy every moment of your play with your sex toy. I like to go deep and hard when I am hot and aroused.

In Conclusion

There is no hard and fast rule about dildo use and the key is to take you time and relax, have fun and listen to what your body is telling you. Remember girls practice makes perfect and the more you use your dildo the more you will understand your body and the greater the delights that will unfold.

Well ladies enjoy the ride but please note after that great orgasm you aren’t finished. Always make sure that you clean you dildo with anti-bacterial soap and water, commercial sex toy cleaner or sterilize it (many dildo are now even dishwasher safe!). Then rinse you dildo and make sure it is properly dried. Then when your dildo is squeaky clean and dry, store in a dry and at room temperature. Then storing in a soft material in a drawer will be fine. Never use a faulty or damaged dildo because the genital tissue is very fragile and can be easily damaged by faulty dildo. Please girls enjoy your dildo they really are fun.

By: Holly Franklin

About the Author:
Self pleasure for women is a website set up by Holly Franklin to be a dildo use resource for women and to show women how to use a dildo. Holly new website offers articles on self-pleasure techniques for women and related women’s issues.



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Ultimate Pleasure Chest – Sex Toy Treasures

Thursday, February 4th, 2010


Sex stores are filled with dozens of delightful devices each designed to tease and taunt you with promises of ultimate orgasmic ecstasy. On your quest for quivering climaxes, you may already have amassed a secret stash of sex toy treasures. But, is the elusive pursuit of passion products a bounty of bliss or a foreplay farce? Unfortunately, the answer is yes and no and it depends.

If your relationship could use a little sexual adventure, why not take command of your erotic destiny? Go on a sex toy treasure hunt. Set out to experience new and exotic sensations as you creatively explore all your erogenous zones in intimate detail. On your journey of joy, both you and your first mate will need a playful sense of creative experimentation, an intimate imagination and a willingness to communicate. Be prepared for wet and wild encounters, long hard nights and intense physical exhilaration.

Of course, a list of available sexual treasures to guide and inspire you might come in handy. So, to help you map some pleasure spots and discover the true value of your sex toy treasures, a few secrets of desire are revealed below:

Gorgeous Glass pleasure wands are truly beautiful creations intended for visual and physical stimulation. These jewels of luxury loving include realistic shaped glass dildos, phallic penetrators, spinners and anal arousal accessories. Ultra smooth glass gems come in spectacular colors with sensual textures (spiral wraps, ribs, nubs, bumps, twists and curves) artistically designed for pleasure. In your search, you will also come across dildos crafted from acrylic, gleaming chrome and polished marble. Vigorous Vibrators are elusive yet essential treasures for any pleasure seeker. Among the copious contraptions you will encounter, there are only a few with the strength, intensity and durability to deliver electrically powered orgasms again and again. Obtain at least one of each of four types: a pocket rocket style clitoral stimulator, an insertable G-spot vibrator, an egg shaped buzzer, and a body massager (Hitachi magic wand). Find one or more to shake up your world. Squishy Sensations in the form of silicone dildos are special treats. They come in wild shapes, styles and colors from realistic to futuristic. Sample a variety of shapes and sizes so you have one to fit any occasion. Include in your collection at least one dildo made with the newer materials that feel just like the real thing. A dildo with a suction cup base or one that can be mounted for hands free play is also a wonderful find. Anal Arousal accessories should not be overlooked as nasty, kinky or wicked. The pleasure potential you can discover with these naughty toys will amaze you. Avoiding the wealth of nerve endings found here would be a waste. Luscious Lubes are essential ingredients when enjoying your sexy treasures (artificial or real). Flavored oils turn any erogenous zone into a tasty treat for enhanced oral pleasuring. Silky smooth water based liquids enhance your natural wetness for improved sensuality. Thicker, gooey gels are excellent for anal play and creamy oils are marvelous for massages. Fancy Frills are exciting extras used to tease, tantalize and thrill the senses during foreplay and sexplay. Definitely include a blindfold to help enhance your other senses. A feather and some soft artist brushes can tickle your fancy in creative ways. Silky lingerie adds a sensual and visual touch. A special scent (cologne, perfume or incense) reserved for intimate times can trigger erotic memories and set the mood for love or passion. Always be on the look out for intimate pleasuring items disguised as every day objects.

In addition to your luxury loving loot, you will also want to invest in your own private library of love as a source of carnal knowledge. A wealth of information is available with imaginative tips, techniques and ideas to stimulate your desire for creative new sexual skills and adventures. As you fantasize and gain confidence to push your sexual boundaries, you will rediscover the joy of learning to love for life.

Obtaining and experiencing the full pleasure potential of even one of these sex toy treasures will surely have you lusting for more. Venture beyond the ordinary and accept nothing less than ultimate pleasure as the reward for your self and your lover.

By: Michael Kortekaas

About the Author:
For creative sexy ideas and exciting foreplay games, visit the Sexy Suggestions website and enjoy amazing sex with the one you love. When your toys are ready to play, check out Frisky Foreplay to give them a workout.



Marquise

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3 Female Orgasm Secrets That Other Men Will Never Know

Monday, February 1st, 2010


Most men would not admit that it’s all guess work that they do when they are in bed with women. If you are one of those who work blindly in the dark and simply hopes that your lady will feel pleasure anyway, you need a little bit of catching up to do.

Here are three of the most important Woman orgasms secrets that you need to know:

1. Every woman has different erogenous zones therefore you should take time to find them and explore them thoroughly. A woman orgasms a lot faster and more often if you take her senses to such great heights that she is practically delirious from the pleasure. Make sure that before you slide in your love tool, she is already riveting with pleasure.

2. There is clitoral orgasm and there is also vaginal orgasm. The first obviously comes from the stimulation of the clitoris but the latter is a little bit trickier. Vaginal orgasms come from stimulating the G-spot which has a different location for different women. Some women have accessible G-spots which can easily be reached by the finger or an average sized penis. However, there are also those whose G-spot is hard to get to, much like a secret government facility. In this case, you might want to explore the option of using sex toys such as vibrators and dildos.

3. There are a handful of women who climaxes even without penetration or clitoral stimulation. They are very few but you will never know, your lady might be one of them. One way to fund out is to engage in heavy petting without going all the way. If she peaks, you know that you are one of the luckiest men alive.

By: Holly Liv

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Something you Would Like to Know About Sex Toys

Saturday, October 3rd, 2009
Kerry asked:


Sex toys are a perfect way to have fun and bring in the much-needed excitement into your love life. It is primarily an object or a device that facilitates human sexual pleasure in an individual. This term can also include BDSM apparatuses. Sex toys are popular among people from all over the world. Many have discovered sex toys as a way of enhancing a sex life.

Sex toys are designed to resemble human genitals and are basically classified as vibrating or non-vibrating.

Do you need a sex toy to enhance sexual pleasure?

Well, sound like an interesting question, isn’t it? That’s no surprise that we live in a society where sexual pleasure and guilt are firmly linked to each other. People want to enhance their sexual relationship especially where non-procreative sex like using sex toys, is concerned.

·Sex toys are a great way to add the much needed pleasure for your sexual life.

·It offers a unique opportunity to explore our bodies in new and exciting ways.

·Sex toys enhance the much-needed confidence in a person that helps him while having natural sex.

·Sex Toys can help a person explore more ways of sexual intimacy. You can learn about your individual sexual desires, new erogenous zones and a new found confidence during sex through the use of sex toys.

·Sex toys can be a great source of stress relief. It can help you overcome sexual arousement to a great extent especially if you are single.

Online Sex Toys store

The increasing demand of sex toys among people has created a massive demand for the same all over the world. Today one can find millions of sex toys store on the web so much so that it is difficult to select the best one of the lot. The days of hesitancy have disappeared. Today people have become more confident to buy sex toys from an online store.

Sex toys are turning out to be a necessity among most men and women all over the world. People are becoming more aware of their sexual relationship. This awareness has increased the demand of all types of sex toys to meet different sexual requirements.



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