Huge Dildo

Dildos are a little daunting when you first get them out of their packaging. Most companies don’t give you a manual on how to use the sex toy you have just bought. They just presume that you knwo where to “stick it”. This is unfortunate because unless you know what you are doing you cannot feel the true benefit of owning a sex toy. As a result I have decided to put together a guide here to help those who are approaching dildo use without much experience. It is not a step by step guide but will point you in the right direction.

1. Lubrication

Unlike a penis a dildo doesn’t produce it’s on lubricant so girls it very important to lubricate up. It is a common fallacy that a woman own natural lubricant will suffice, in fact quite often many materials of penetrative toys actually can absorb the women lubricant. Whenever a woman is using a penetrative toy it is vital that she uses a lot of lubricant. Remember most materials don’t slide easily and if not properly lubricated can lead to unpleasant friction that may need to nasty soreness that can last for several days.

2. In the Mood For Love

You will feel discomfort if you try to use a sex toy before being suitably aroused. Take your time with the toy and work your way to arousal through stimulation of other erogenous zones. If you have a vibrating dildo for example; gently caress you clitoris using a gentle buzz setting to get yourself excited if not use your hands. You would’t want a lover to jump right in and the same approach has to be applied to dildo use.

3. Take it easy

The first penetration should be taken very slowly and with deep breaths. Taking these long breaths allows blood to rush to the genitals that help them to engorge and relax. If you take short breaths or hold your breath it stops all of this taking place resulting tightness and tenderness. Once the dildo is inserted I would suggest leaving it in there for a moment to allow the body to get used to the feel of it and give the time for the body to relax properly. Remember you don’t have to insert the entire dildo in (do what feels nice and comfortable). Some women like deep penetration and others more shallow insertion. Remember that it is your toy girls you are in control and play around with your dildo. Work out what feels nice. Lube yourself up around the genitals and your dildo then rub it against your lips and clitoris teasing yourself and then penetrate it really is a lot of fun.

4. Are We Having Fun Yet?

Do anything you want ladies. Insert the entire dildo or only half of it, put it deeper or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions (tease yourself when you feel that you are close to climax, stop then count to thirty and begin pleasuring yourself again, let the anticipation build again, stop and repeat this a few times the resulting orgasm will be electric). Enjoy every moment of your play with your sex toy. I like to go deep and hard when I am hot and aroused.

In Conclusion

There is no hard and fast rule about dildo use and the key is to take you time and relax, have fun and listen to what your body is telling you. Remember girls practice makes perfect and the more you use your dildo the more you will understand your body and the greater the delights that will unfold.

Well ladies enjoy the ride but please note after that great orgasm you aren’t finished. Always make sure that you clean you dildo with anti-bacterial soap and water, commercial sex toy cleaner or sterilize it (many dildo are now even dishwasher safe!). Then rinse you dildo and make sure it is properly dried. Then when your dildo is squeaky clean and dry, store in a dry and at room temperature. Then storing in a soft material in a drawer will be fine. Never use a faulty or damaged dildo because the genital tissue is very fragile and can be easily damaged by faulty dildo. Please girls enjoy your dildo they really are fun.

By: Holly Franklin

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Cara

If you are racking your brain for an unusual and creative gift for a birthday, wedding anniversary or any other occasion, think about an adult gift for that someone special. Yes, adult gifts are becoming increasingly popular in UK and it’s no wonder why. Rather than a boring box of chocolates or another predictable stuff, why not surprise your partner or friend with an intriguing and sensual gift? If chosen right, an adult gift can be appreciated by anyone – even the shyest and most reserved of your friends!

Of course, choosing an adult gift can be a daunting task if you have never done it before; however, once you start looking around, chances are you will be amazed by the number of opportunities UK adult shopping provides. The selection of adult gifts is huge and so, there is something special virtually for everyone.

Of course, an adult gift is something intimate and personal; therefore, it is appropriate for a person you know well. There are certain concerns, though. Will your adult gift be understood right and appreciated? Won’t the recipient feel offended? What will they think about you?

Testing the waters is the first step to choosing the right adult gift. Talk to your partner and find out her or his view on sex toys and other adult stuff. Crack a joke with your friend about a dildo and see how she responds. Not everyone is comfortable with sex toys. If your recipient falls into this category, giving a vibrator or dildo is not the best idea. However, even shy people may appreciate a bold sex toy if it is presented as a humorous gift. How you are going to give your adult gift also matters.

However, adult shopping is more than shopping for sex toys only. A wonderful sensual gift would be massage oil which you can later use on your partner for an erotic massage. Bath products make quite intimate, yet non-sexual gifts that can be given to just about anyone. Shopping for an adult gift in UK will open numerous new alternatives for you.

If you decide to buy a sex toy as an adult gift, but feel uncomfortable about entering a sex shop and requesting for a vibrator straight away, try online adult shopping. There are plenty of sex shops based in UK, so you won’t have to pay much for delivery and wait long for your adult gift to arrive. Break from the usual flowers, balloons and chocolates – be creative and choose a perfect adult gift your recipient will definitely enjoy.

Richard Scott works at Get Sextoys, UK’s leading supplier of adult sex toys and gifts such as rabbit vibrators, dildos, fake pussy, cock extender, realistic vagina, and so much more. Buy sextoys online now!



By: Richard Scott

About the Author:

Ashanti

1. What is a sexually transmitted disease or STD?

Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD) is the politically correct term for what used to be called “veneral disease (VD)”. These are diseases that are transmitted through or as the result of sexual activity (not just sexual intercourse).

There are no BDSM specific sexually transmitted diseases but like any other sexual activity BDSM activity CAN spread STDs.

Heterosexuals are a lot less STD aware than the homosexual world is, but they should be just as educated on the subject. As a result, the current risk groups for any STD are heterosexual women.

There are many different sexually transmitted diseases and certainly not all are directly related to the genital organs.

General information is freely and widely available from doctors, hospitals, first aid centers, pharmacies and of course on the Internet.

2. How does one get STD infected?

Some sexually transmitted diseases are viruses, others are caused by bacteria, some by plain and simple dirt. As a result, there are different ways, in which people can get STD infected. An important form of STD infection is the contact between bodily fluids (most importantly blood, sperm, vaginal fluids and mother milk). This is especially true the most lethal ones in the Western world: such as Hepatitis (around in different varieties) and HIV (Aids). As a result, contact with bodily fluids should be avoided by anyone who has more than one partner (even if that is only incidental) and partners who have not been solely together for MANY years (not months). Incubation time (the “lead” time before the actual infection shows itself), in the case of HIV for example may be as much as five to seven years.

Another well known cause of STD infection is lack of hygiene. In the BDSM world especially quite a lot of personal hygiene is neglected. Toys that have been on the floor or in a toy bag should not be used unless cleaned and – when brought into contact with the genital area – protected. One should wear latex gloves during penetration, especially when in a (more) public environment.

3. What do I do when I (think I) am STD infected?

There is only one answer: visit your doctor as soon as possible. Bear in mind that your doctor is not there to judge you, but to cure you. And yes, doctors have seen it all before and many times. If you feel troubled by having to go to your doctor, turn to a first aid center or a specific STD center if there is one in your area.

Every STD spreads like wildfire! They are among the most contagous diseases. In most cases if you are infected, you do not only have a responsibility to yourself, but also to your partner(s) and to an extent to you entire environment.

4. Can an STD be cured?

Some can, and some cannot. There are no cures yet for HIV, hepatitis C and various forms of herpes, for example. HIV and hepatitis C are potentially lethal. So is syphylus, but there is a good cure for this disease.

5. Does an STD only effect me?

Every STD will effect you but most will also effect your partner and maybe others (such as unborn children) if not properly taken care of. Sometimes an STD can be the cause of dead babies or incurable medical problems. Some will not really effect the bearer, but will badly effect the partner and – for example – cause infertility (in males especially).

6. How do I protect myself against STD infection?

Your first line of defense is strict personal hygiene. Wear latex gloves and use condoms, also on penetrating toys, such as dildos and vibrators. Regularly clean equipment and – for example – wash bondage ropes.

The second important line of defense is to educate yourself. Again, know what the risks are and avoid them.

7. Does an STD spread quicker, because of BDSM activity?

The BDSM community is very open. It is not unusual to temporarily exchange partners, people switch partners frequently and such things as BDSM parties open an easy risk for infection. Besides, BDSM activity implies much more physical contact than most other forms of sexual behavior and there is the frequent use of toys and equipment. So, there indeed are more opportunities for infection, compared to a standard vanilla relationship. As a result – although no real research has been done in this area – there should be a higher risk of spreading an STD.

8. What BDSM activities are likely to spread an STD?

All forms of penetration, genital or by means of toys, fingers, fists or the mouth are activities that can transmit an STD. In terms of BDSM there are also other activities. Whipping may occasionally cause small superficial skin wounds and any breakage of the skin is a serious crack in the bodies main line of defense against diseases, including many STDs. Bondage ropes, used in the genital area, are a well known vehicle for sexually transmitted diseases and so are internal toys (vibrators, dildos, Ben Wah balls, vibrating eggs, etcetera). Nipple clamps may also cause small skin wounds. In general, BDSM activity is much more physically intens and physically demanding than most other forms of sexual activity. As a result, you should be more careful.

9. Why do governmental and health organisation hardly ever mention BDSM-acitivity in their STD information?

Most forms of what is generally known as “alternative sexuality” (such as BDSM) are overlooked by governmental and health organisations, when it comes to information and education about STD risks. The reason for this is largely in the fact that such organisations simply will not believe there are that many practitioners and that such organisations have no clue about BDSM. “Alternative sexuality” in the entire education of health care professionals usually takes up as much space (and attention) as ONE PAGE IN ONE BOOK! That is, if alternative sexuality is being mentioned at all!

10. How can I help to inform people about STD risks?

If you happen to be active in a local BDSM community, or for example have a personal website about BDSM, try and devote some time and space to sexually transmitted diseases occasionally. For example, next to workshops about flogging, bondage or needle play, a workshop about STD prevention will be very helpful. But, since this is not a popular subject you may also want to settle for having leaflets available, writing something in your magazine or newsletter if you have one and putting information on websites.

By: Hans Meijer

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Elian

Doctors tell us that sexual abstinence can harm the physical and psychic health of men and women. Find out how you can reverse the harmful side effects of abstinence with or without a sexual partner.

How can sexual abstinence harm your health?

You may be grieving the loss of your romantic partner or a loss of sexual intimacy in a relationship, and the process of grieving takes a huge toll on your health. When your thoughts turn to loss and dis-ease, you lose the health benefits of feeling love and gratitude — our two healing emotions.

You may feel content on your own without a sexual partner, yet the lack of sexual activity takes its health toll.

Men and women who abstain from sex for long periods can develop problems with sexual function.

Men may experience issues concerning erection and ejaculation. Testosterone levels may fall and reduce desire.

Women may suffer a loss of arousal, vaginal lubrication and an inability to climax. Estrogen levels may fall and bad cholesterol may rise.

Fortunately, these conditions may reverse and return to normal after you resume sexual activity.

Men and women who abstain from sex miss out on these health benefits of sexual activity:

- ease in handling stress
- speedy cell repair and regeneration
- increased intimacy hormones that elevate mood
- greater blood flow to brain that improves memory
- stronger immune system and less fatigue or illness
- younger skin and less body fat from human growth hormone produced during sex
- extended longevity

If you don’t have a sexual partner, is there another way to gain these health benefits?

Researchers report that our sexual health must be maintained by a regular and active sex life.

If you don’t have a sexual partner, there are several ways to avoid or reverse the side effects of sexual abstinence:

* Substitute sex with masturbation

- Men often masturbate, even when their sex life is in order.
- Many women do not masturbate, even when deprived of sex.
- Some religions view it as a sin.
- Sexual researchers report that masturbation is one way to maintain sexual and psychic health. Here is another:

* Use sex toys

- They are used by adults who cannot make love with a beloved partner, yet they don’t want to sleep around.
- There are vibrators, realistic dolls, dildos that are safe tools for sexual release.
- Unlike casual sex with a partner, the sex toys cannot expose you to STDs.
- They stimulate the health benefits of an active sex life.

* Develop sexual intimacy in a relationship

- Improve your existing relationship so that you revive the spark of sexual fire for an active, healthy sex life.
- Find a compatible match for a loving, passionate relationship through matchmaking services or online dating sites.
- Health studies confirm that you will age better and live a happier, healthier life when you enjoy an active sex life.

By: Hadley Finch

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Alessandra

Sex stores are filled with dozens of delightful devices each designed to tease and taunt you with promises of ultimate orgasmic ecstasy. On your quest for quivering climaxes, you may already have amassed a secret stash of sex toy treasures. But, is the elusive pursuit of passion products a bounty of bliss or a foreplay farce? Unfortunately, the answer is yes and no and it depends.

If your relationship could use a little sexual adventure, why not take command of your erotic destiny? Go on a sex toy treasure hunt. Set out to experience new and exotic sensations as you creatively explore all your erogenous zones in intimate detail. On your journey of joy, both you and your first mate will need a playful sense of creative experimentation, an intimate imagination and a willingness to communicate. Be prepared for wet and wild encounters, long hard nights and intense physical exhilaration.

Of course, a list of available sexual treasures to guide and inspire you might come in handy. So, to help you map some pleasure spots and discover the true value of your sex toy treasures, a few secrets of desire are revealed below:

Gorgeous Glass pleasure wands are truly beautiful creations intended for visual and physical stimulation. These jewels of luxury loving include realistic shaped glass dildos, phallic penetrators, spinners and anal arousal accessories. Ultra smooth glass gems come in spectacular colors with sensual textures (spiral wraps, ribs, nubs, bumps, twists and curves) artistically designed for pleasure. In your search, you will also come across dildos crafted from acrylic, gleaming chrome and polished marble. Vigorous Vibrators are elusive yet essential treasures for any pleasure seeker. Among the copious contraptions you will encounter, there are only a few with the strength, intensity and durability to deliver electrically powered orgasms again and again. Obtain at least one of each of four types: a pocket rocket style clitoral stimulator, an insertable G-spot vibrator, an egg shaped buzzer, and a body massager (Hitachi magic wand). Find one or more to shake up your world. Squishy Sensations in the form of silicone dildos are special treats. They come in wild shapes, styles and colors from realistic to futuristic. Sample a variety of shapes and sizes so you have one to fit any occasion. Include in your collection at least one dildo made with the newer materials that feel just like the real thing. A dildo with a suction cup base or one that can be mounted for hands free play is also a wonderful find. Anal Arousal accessories should not be overlooked as nasty, kinky or wicked. The pleasure potential you can discover with these naughty toys will amaze you. Avoiding the wealth of nerve endings found here would be a waste. Luscious Lubes are essential ingredients when enjoying your sexy treasures (artificial or real). Flavored oils turn any erogenous zone into a tasty treat for enhanced oral pleasuring. Silky smooth water based liquids enhance your natural wetness for improved sensuality. Thicker, gooey gels are excellent for anal play and creamy oils are marvelous for massages. Fancy Frills are exciting extras used to tease, tantalize and thrill the senses during foreplay and sexplay. Definitely include a blindfold to help enhance your other senses. A feather and some soft artist brushes can tickle your fancy in creative ways. Silky lingerie adds a sensual and visual touch. A special scent (cologne, perfume or incense) reserved for intimate times can trigger erotic memories and set the mood for love or passion. Always be on the look out for intimate pleasuring items disguised as every day objects.

In addition to your luxury loving loot, you will also want to invest in your own private library of love as a source of carnal knowledge. A wealth of information is available with imaginative tips, techniques and ideas to stimulate your desire for creative new sexual skills and adventures. As you fantasize and gain confidence to push your sexual boundaries, you will rediscover the joy of learning to love for life.

Obtaining and experiencing the full pleasure potential of even one of these sex toy treasures will surely have you lusting for more. Venture beyond the ordinary and accept nothing less than ultimate pleasure as the reward for your self and your lover.

By: Michael Kortekaas

About the Author:

Marquise